You and your vagina ...

 I came across a youtube video just the other day, it popped up in my feed, it was about, you guessed it, different vaginas.

I thought it was little obvious about vaginas, everyone knows what it is, right ?  Apparently not.

Seem like a lot of women don't like the look of theirs, even to the extent that they do NOT date for fear of being rejected.  That is really heart breaking to hear.  There are two physical attributes that define a woman, not to be shallow, but it's breasts and a vagina.  Lacking one or more in the right proportion can be very distressing.

One thing that some women do not know, men too, is that the thing between a woman's legs isn't actually called a vagina, or the inner most channel is the vagina, everything else is called the Vulva.  The main parts are the clitoris, yes, the thing you tickle, the labia or lips, then hiding in the middle is the vagina or vajayjay as some people call her.

Some vagina's or vulva's are innie's or outie's depending on whether the vagina itself can be easily seen between the labia or not.

Girl's also have slight different shapes, asymmetrical, i.e. labia of different sizes and then some girls are totally flat while others are, well, fuller shall we say.  The fuller looking vulva's can be either larger and rounder or a little pokey :-)

The point I am getting at is all girl's are different and unique.  It's what makes you, well 'you'.

But, some girls, like I said, don't like what theirs look like, wearing tight fitting jeans, swim bikinis, underwear, jogging pants, compression shorts, all can be a fashion no-go.

One of the biggest issues or maybe more common, is the larger labia as it shows the most.  I know, because I sometimes have to deal with it, swim bikinis are a vexing problem depending on how it's designed. Sometimes it's perfect, other times, she shows a little too much for comfort.  We all want to feel natural, comfortable when we are on the beach or maybe at the pool.  Having to wonder where the towel is just doesn't make for a fun relaxed time.

Also depending on what kind of underwear or swim bikini, you're enlarged labia may or may not show as a 'camel toe', it just may show as just a shape, no different than if you were wearing a medium or small menstrual pad, either way, she is there.

Just remember you are not alone, many girls feel the same way.  If you cannot afford surgery to change the shape or size you have, then you can at least at the beach wear a shear wrap around your waist, that will give you the confidence to wear a smaller or tighter bikini bottom.

I included some photos here of various shapes of vulva's under swim bikinis, as you can see, size and shapes vary a lot.

These models have more of their vulva lower …

Some models have more of a 'pokey' look …

And finally a small and a camel tow …  (I am on the last photo, yes, I figured if I am talking about vagina's, I'd show it, and yes, it's not my most happy view)

So there you go, all different kinds of vaginas, big, small, short, tall.  They are all us, don't be ashamed of how you look.